He Waits

This coming February 22 will be Ash Wednesday, the auspicious start of our Lenten season. These coming days should beckon us to see the Lord’s smile through the Sacrament of Reconciliation.

Last year, our youngest son Aim was born on May 15th.
I was there ( I would not miss it for the world ) but due to my limited holiday leave, I had to go back to China.
So after four months when I came home again to fetch them, I was apprehensive that Aim would not be comfortable in my presence to even let me carry him. My wife’s often repeated stories of how he cried whenever an unfamiliar person comes near him to play or even greet him, was compounding my worries.

But lo and behold, the moment our baby saw me, he gave me that sweetest smile and he readily welcomed my embrace and kisses. My distance and long absence did not alienate me from my son. It was as if I was gone for just a few minutes and he was waiting in anticipation.

Yes, this is one of the rewards and perks of fatherhood!

We all know that at some point in our lives, we have lived far from our Heavenly Father.
Whether it was pride or the feeling of unworthiness has led us to be on that state, we drifted ay from his presence.
By the time we realized and admit to our faults, we somehow lost the confidence to believe that we are still forgivable, that we are still very much lovable.

So here’s the good news for us, repentant sinners.

God loves us endlessly, enormously, unconditionally and sweetly that if we come back to Him anytime with a humble and contrite heart, not a single iota of our past sins can alienate His divine mercy which He faithfully gives to each one of us. He readily welcomes us with His own embrace and kiss. His forgiveness permeate into our soul and whole being, resulting to us being able to feel His innermost presence called God’s peace.

Yes, this is the saving grace and blessings of being God’s children!
Praise God for His love and mercy!

Psalm 136:1 "Praise the LORD for he is good; for his mercy endures forever."


Cathechism of the Catholic Church about the Sacrament of Reconciliation.

CCC 1468 - "The whole power of the sacrament of Penance consists in restoring us to God's grace and joining us with him in an intimate friendship." Reconciliation with God is thus the purpose and effect of this sacrament. For those who receive the sacrament of Penance with contrite heart and religious disposition, reconciliation "is usually followed by peace and serenity of conscience with strong spiritual consolation." Indeed the sacrament of Reconciliation with God brings about a true "spiritual resurrection," restoration of the dignity and blessings of the life of the children of God, of which the most precious is friendship with God.

CCC 1469 -This sacrament reconciles us with the Church. Sin damages or even breaks fraternal communion. The sacrament of Penance repairs or restores it. In this sense it does not simply heal the one restored to ecclesial communion, but has also a revitalizing effect on the life of the Church which suffered from the sin of one of her members. Re-established or strengthened in the communion of saints, the sinner is made stronger by the exchange of spiritual goods among all the living members of the Body of Christ, whether still on pilgrimage or already in the heavenly homeland.

Family Time

"Daddy, I want to go to London.”, my seven year old son blurted out.

"Sure", I said interestingly, "But why London?"

Without batting an eyelash, Zek answered, "Because I want to be a police there."

"Really?...uhm..so why be a London police?"

"Because they have beautiful police cars!", he shouted with a big smile on his face.

"OK, that's cool."
"And after you have your beautiful London police car, what will you do next?", quizzing up our conversation a little bit more.

Zek paused for a while. "Well, I will chase the bad guys in their car but I can easily catch them because my car is faster, right Daddy?"

"I am sure you will, Zek".
"What else will you do in London?"

Thinking further he declared, "OK, I will also have my own beautiful car and I will let you come to London and use it, if you are not too old."

"What if I am too old by that time?"

"Then, I will drive for you." Zek said with a smile.

"So you will let Daddy and Mommy join you in London?" obviously intrigue by his revelation.

"Yes, and you can stay in my hotel room and somebody will clean it for you everyday".

"Wow, who will pay your hotel room?"

"By myself." he assured.

"Now that's gonna be expensive."

"OK Daddy, then I will just go to New York", as he paused, "is it far?"

"Hmm, it should be around one day to go there by airplane."
"Do you think you can ride the airplane that long, I mean, are you not going to be afraid?"

"Ahhh, maybe a little bit", not sounding too sure this time.
"But I want to go to New York so I am not afraid"

"I am glad to hear that.", as I give Zek my own version of a happy and proud smile.


This conversation lasted for a few minutes only but it was another memorable time for us since our son has tried to express his thoughts and his dreams to me and my wife. OK, he likes cars ever since, often see the names of London and New York in the news weather report and he plays the Iphone game of police car chase. These explain his initial ideas. But to be invited to go to London or New York and drive his car and stay in his hotel room was just our son expressing his love for his parents. It was a mushy moving moment for me to hear that from him totally un-coached.

So when was the last time you let you child speak his/her heart out to you?
Spend some family time and catch that moment with them.
I bet you will enjoy every minute and you will heartily be rewarded.

Family time is loving time.

"Because you are precious to me and honored, I love you." - Isaiah 43:3

God bless.

Phototaxis

What does a moth, Adolf Hitler and the three wise man have in common?

A little background for us.

A moth (aka gamu-gamo) is an insect that is closely related to the butterfly species that is mostly nocturnal. Common moths have a life-span of just a week or two after growing their wings.

Adolf Hitler, was the Austrian-born German leader of the Third Reich whose racially motivated policies resulted in the deaths of as many as 17 million people, including an estimated six million Jews and between 500,000 and 1,500,000 Roma targeted in the Holocaust.*

The 3 wise men, traditionally known as Melchior, Gaspar and Balthasar or the Magi, are believed to be important people (kings) from the East who visited the baby Jesus on the first Christmas eve, bearing gifts of gold (valuable item), frankincense (a perfume) and myrrh (an anointing oil).

Going back to our question - So what does a moth, Adolf Hitler and the three wise man have in common?

The answer is – Phototaxis.

Phototaxis, a scientific term mainly used in microbiology, is a kind of taxis or locomotory movement that occurs when a whole organism moves in response to the stimulus of light. Phototaxis is called positive if the movement is in the direction of increasing light intensity and negative if the direction is opposite.*

Moths frequently appear to circle artificial lights, although the reason for this behavior remains unknown. One hypothesis advanced to explain this behavior is that moths use a technique of celestial navigation called transverse orientation. By maintaining a constant angular relationship to a bright celestial light, such as the moon, they can fly in a straight line. Celestial objects are so far away, that even after travelling great distances, the change in angle between the moth and the light source is negligible; further, the moon will always be in the upper part of the visual field or on the horizon. When a moth encounters a much closer artificial light and uses it for navigation, the angle changes noticeably after only a short distance, in addition to being often below the horizon. The moth instinctively attempts to correct by turning toward the light, causing airborne moths to come plummeting downwards, and resulting in a spiral flight path that gets closer and closer to the light source.*

The light it is attracted to becomes the source of its own destruction.

The light it is attracted to is artificial.

The actions of Adolf Hitler during his Nazi regime suggested that he saw himself as the light of the pure race that should inhabit our planet. And so he started his ultimate dream of mass-annihilation which included even his own people who has shown opposition to his plan.

The light he was attracted to became the source of other people’s destruction and his own soul’s eternal damnation.

The light he was attracted to was the false light.

Now here comes the 3 wise men who saw and followed the light of the star that finally led them to a manger in Bethlehem where Jesus is born. Truly, they are wise for they are mostly likely rich and respected members of their society, yet they travelled far in order to find and give their gifts to the baby Jesus as they kneel (an indication of great respect in those times). Their valuable time, talent and treasures were spent to what they believe to be one of the most (if not the most) important journey of their lives.

All three gifts are ordinary offerings and gifts given to a king. Myrrh being commonly used as an anointing oil, frankincense as a perfume, and gold as a valuable item.The three gifts had a spiritual meaning : gold as a symbol of virtue and kingship on earth, frankincense (an incense) as a symbol of priestship and prayer, and myrrh (an annointing oil) as a symbol of suffering and death.

The light that the they were attracted to is the True Light that will save the world, the Light that ultimately gave sight to the blind, capacity to walk for the lame, healing to those who are ill, comfort and hope to the desperate and forgiveness to the repentant sinners.

The light that they were attracted to is the light of God’s love incarnate.

A few days from now and we will all be celebrating Christmas. A lot of us have been understandably busy with all the modern traditions that goes with the holiday season – last-minute shopping for gifts and Noche Buena foods, lots of parties and get-togethers to go to, house-cleaning and final preparations.

On one side, these activities are important up to some level BUT as Edward Hays noted (writer of “ A Pilgrim’s Almanac”), the supreme trick of the devil is to have us so busy decorating, preparing food, practicing music and cleaning in preparation for the feast of Christmas that we actually miss the coming of Christ. Hurt feelings, anger, impatience, injured egos (my personal additions –unforgiveness, resentments, fears, unworthiness) — the list of artificial lights that busyness creates to blind us to the birth of Jesus in its truest essence.

Edward Hays goes on to remind us that we should "take time to be aware that in the very midst of our busy preparations for the celebration of Christ’s birth in ancient Bethlehem, Christ is reborn in the Bethlehems of our homes and daily lives. Take time, slow down, be still, be awake to the Divine Mystery that looks so common and so ordinary yet is wondrously present.

Jesus Christ should be the only life-saving and inexhaustible Light of our lives.

There was a story where, in a certain church, the parish priest was anxiously looking for an image of the baby Jesus that disappeared from their manger decoration. After his relentless searching he found a small boy pulling a plastic wagon with the image of the baby Jesus inside. When asked why he did it, the boy simply replied, “Well, you see Father, I have been praying to Jesus to receive this wagon gift and I promised Him that, if my wish comes true, I will give Him a ride around so He can see the whole church. And so I did”, as he carefully puts the image back into the manger.

Jesus has done so much by being born a human like us. So it is befitting that our greatest display of gratitude is that we put utmost importance to his birth by carrying Him in our hearts so He can meet and save more people.

Let us all pause to pray.

A Christmas prayer by Meister Eckhart (Living Faith)

Lord, we do far too much celebrating your actual coming in our hearts. I believe in God, but do I believe in God-in-me? I believe in God in heaven, but do I believe in God-on-earth? I believe in God out there, but do I believe in God-with-us?

Lord, be born in my heart. Come alive in me this Christmas and stay in me all year long.

Amen.

God bless and Merry Christmas to all.